In online dating, your profile is all that represents you to the thousands of people who are poking around the Internet, looking for someone to catch their eye and attract their interest.  You shower and spiff up before you go on a big date, right?  So why not make sure your profile is spiffy as well.  You have to be attractive to attract a Catholic single. 

1) A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words:

Though we may not want to admit it, looks do matter, and potential suitors are going to want to know what you look like.  People see your picture before they see anything else. If you don't even have one uploaded, not many people are going to bother to read your profile.  A great picture is vital for a great profile.  When you select the picture or pictures you are going to upload, keep these criteria in mind:

• It's best to include a close-up picture of just your friendly face.
• If you wish, you can include a full body shot, perhaps from your trip to Cancun, just make sure it is appropriate.  No nudity, of course.
• If you choose to include a group shot, make sure it is obvious which person is you, either with an arrow or a circle.
• You may want to add a funny or goofy picture of yourself, to show your sense of humor or boisterous energy.
• People will like to see a picture of you enjoying your favorite pastime, be it fishing, playing soccer, or just hanging out with your friends.  Show everyone the real you.

2) But Words Still Matter

Once your bright, smiling face has caught someone's eye, they will want to read more about you.  Your personal statement gives you carte blanche to express whatever you wish about yourself. 

• Tell a story about your ideal day or favorite memory. 
• Talk about your pastimes, or anything you are passionate about. 
• Mention your life goals.
• Describe the type of person you are looking for. 
• Just be honest, and be yourself. 
• Check your spelling and grammar.

Since you have all the time you want to work on your personal statement, make sure it is polished.  First impressions are important, and you don't want poor grammar or bad spelling turning someone away.  Write your statement, review it a few times, and make sure it is perfect.  Bust out a Thesaurus if you like, to spice up your vocabulary.  Just represent yourself for who you are, and maybe the very person you describe will come scrolling by.

3) Honesty Is Just Plain Policy

Our most important tip on how to attract a Catholic single with your profile is to be yourself.  When creating a profile at a site designed to meet other people and possibly make friendships or romantic relationships, you must not misrepresent yourself.  Don't lie about your income, your smoking habits, or your feelings about children.  Tell the truth, and you will avoid unhappy misunderstandings later on.  You don't want to actually meet someone you really like, and who really likes you, only to be forced to admit that while they thought you go to mass every week, you lied and in fact you only go for Christmas and Easter.  Little things you may think are ok to fudge on may not be ok for the person or people interested in you. It's not fair to you or to them to be untruthful about yourself.  Who you are is good enough. 

With good pictures, a charming personal statement, and accurate information, your profile will attract many people, maybe even your potential spouse.  Good luck!